Sunday, August 9, 2009

Do you realize?!

Do you know when you scold someone,you're hurting his or her feelings?
(no matter what issue)
Do you know when you scold someone,you're also hurting people around other than the person you are scolding?
Do you know your yelling can hurt and distract others very badly?
Do you know how heartbroken others can be?
Do you know your such 'great actions' can even scared or bring stress to others?
(especially grandparents,they are old and have weak hearts....they can't take it)
Do you realize you're also causing harm to grandparents' health physically and mentally?
Do you realize you're very selfish?
Do you really need to scold your brother just because of a pack of rice??
(there are so many other foods on the table....or u can go out and buy other food to eat)
Do you realize you did not appreciate your family members enough?
Do you realize your family members have feelings and emotions too??

If you have problem with anger management or other problems,seek help!
Do not transfer your unhappiness and anger towards us!!!
Go and see a counselor or psychologist!
We as your family members,we are humans too!!
Don't take family as granted!
We are family but it doesn't mean you can yell or scold whoever whenever you like!!!
You Should Not Be YELLING AT US!!!!
What is your problem???!!!!!
We are very hurt and disappointed with you!
你自己好好反省一下!!

"When you look at your life, the greatest happiness are family happiness.
Our most basic instinct is not for survival but for family.
Most of us would give our own life for the survival of a family member, yet we lead our daily life too often as if we take our family for granted."


No comments: